"وتهدف الجمعية إلى مساعدة الشباب والشابات على الزواج وعلى تحصين أنفسهم وهي تعي تماماً ما يتعرض له جيل الشباب من ضغوط مادية تنعكس على وضعهم النفسي والفكري كما أن انتشار البطالة وقلة فرص العمل وارتفاع أسعار السكن وغلاء المهور وانتشار الفاحشة وغيرها من المشكلات هي إحدى الأسباب لتأسيس الجمعية أيضاً والذي يعتمد عملها الرئيسي على المحسنين الذين يقدمون التبرعات. "
Dear “blessed” people helping our youth to have sex under the approval of your standards, while Chastising the “youth” and giving them the chance to "fortify" themselves and to avoid the act of forbidden love by dragging them into a life of early social and economical burden in which they are not prepared for... Do Syria a favour and include a lot of condoms and safe sex advice with other household stuff you distribute for the newlyweds!
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i cannot quitely see what this has to do with that?
so being poor is an enough reason not to get married ?
meaning let poor people stay tuned, no marriage people, no kids let along , no education no what ever.. till the government wakes up and finds a soltuion to help you out?
and let the Rich increase, get married get children get education.. get what ever you can ..since you are rich and your marriage won't "drag you and us to an econmic and social crisis".
on a second thought, i think ur idea is quite a good soltution on the long term coz this way , this category will vanish in time by itself.
Dania, this category want nothing in life but to live , and marriage is one of their far away dreams.
it's not their problem to hold on their back what the rich and intellectuals have broght this society to, and coz we cannot hold seeing any more kids begging in the street, the solution to deny them getting married?.
i second this group. i don't care what title they work under, as long as they are offering any kind of help for this category to continue living.
Regards.
Omniah, my post wasn’t about having or not having right to get married. Marriage is not that simple, if a young couple are not ready enough to provide basic needs of living, how would they manage to bring children? A child comes with lots of responsibilities; Education, healthcare... etc.
Child labour is already a big problem that is ignored by both government and NGOs. Unemployment is growing and depression among youth is something I’m sensing and living every day, bring more responsibilities and social burden on their shoulders will not be the key for happiness!
We have a deprived society; it’s not acceptable for young people to have normal relationships, which generate repression and young people will rush to get married basically to have a normal sexual life. This organization’s merely goal is simply this!
And Omniah, for God’s sake, I’m not denying any one’s right to get married, I am not categorizing no one, provide education and let our youth stand on their feet before rushing them into getting married for the mere reason of having sex and prevent “sins”...
Marriage is a beautiful, individual case, in which two will swear love and dedication to each other. Group marriage in such ceremonies under the tag of fortification from what they see as a sin. Is something that makes me sick!
أمنية,
How did you read all that in Dania’s post?
Clearly she isn’t categorizing people or denying any one's right to get married.
This post is against group marriage for the only reason of having sex ignoring other possible rising problems; is this organization going to help them provide education for their children??
Where do you live? Don’t you see how people abuse marriage in here, abuse the ability to bring children?
Let’s have sex, bring 5 kids, throw them in the street and let’s see who survives!
"Omniah, my post wasn’t about having or not having right to get married. ........... A child comes with lots of responsibilities; Education, healthcare... etc."
i totally agree , but like it or not this is the current situation .
You said:Child labour is already a big problem that is ignored by both government and NGOs. "
and i still cannot see what has this charity group to do with this? what this has to do with that? why are u linking their work to the society's and the government's failure.
i cannot understand why u insist that these ppl are only looking for SEX in their life.these people are not animals, even if they didn't get full education or living in houses with marbles walls, they are not animals.
This group is merely offering help for couples who cannot afford to get married , to make a family, There is something called instinct of being a father and a mother and make a family when you grow up.
and i say again, i don't care what title they work under as long as these people are recieving HELP.
Regards
Anonymous
I was actually sitting on my head when I read all that .
this is a group is not not a government to provide a full package assistance including marriage, education, health care and whatever , you might let these people have the chance to make a family and carry on with their responsibilities and life , they might , surprisingly enough , not send their kids to the street, or to ur house .
if seeing kids in the streets bothers u that much, u can stay in ur air-conditioned room and save your eyes such scenes till the government or God moves.
i live in Damascus, and it really ached my heart to link these ppl's needs to one word:SEX!!!
Regards
I agree with Omnia completely on this. Besides, who said these people consider sex a sin? People dream about getting married, about having children. Please stop talking about us as if we are animals who want only sex. Marriage is a beautiful thing, so are children and this group are helping people to achieve that, so what? Please don't try to paint halal with haram and vice versa, I beg you. There is an akhera.
Newlyweds become oldyweds, and oldyweds are the reasons that families work. Child labor and other problems are not related to getting married, young or old. They are related to ignorance, economic difficulties and the lack of support.
Whatever .
Peace ...
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